In my small hometown today, there will be flags on every veteran’s grave in the cemetery, and a reception by the American Legion Auxiliary. All the veterans will be honored, but not all of their stories will be told.

One of the Vietnam veterans buried there came back addicted and damaged. A short time after he came back, he died by his own hand while playing Russian roulette. He’s buried next to his parents, who died long after him.

Another Vietnam vet was a successful farmer who had to be admitted to psychiatric care every so often because he was so haunted by his experience in a far away jungle. He was a good man, but it’s a hell of a long way from pheasant and deer hunting on the prairie to carrying a M-16 in the jungle. He died younger than he should have, from exposure to Agent Orange. His widow lives in the nearest big town.

One of the World War II vets buried in the cemetery was a close family friend. He would only tell the story of how scared he was during his service after a few drinks. He had his helmet shot off his head by a Japanese soldier, but he was lucky: he only had a little crease on his head to show for his Purple Heart.

We have a corrupt press and pundit class who treat war as both entertainment and a mark of seriousness. Serious, savvy politicians, in their view, know we have to send kids to war in order to show that we’re a serious country. They were cheerleaders for the Iraq War. They are fools, and their contempt for the people who live in this little town is in no way more obvious than in their desire to turn them into cannon fodder.

I’ve never voted in a primary for a politician who voted for the Iraq War. To me, that act was immediately disqualifying. The kids in this town deserve to have fun, find love and enjoy life. They don’t need to go to war, to be damaged or die, for no good reason. They deserve better than that.

❝

Less said the better.
The bill unpaid, the dead letter.
No roses at the end
Of Smith, my friend.

Last words don't matter,
And there are none to flatter.
Words will not fill the post
Of Smith, the ghost.

For Smith, our brother,
only son of a loving mother,
The ocean lifted, stirred,
Leaving no word.

Missing - John Sleigh Pudney

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tam1MI 1 year ago

The first two verses of IN FLANDERS FIELDS have always stuck with me:

In Flanders fields the poppies blow Between the crosses, row on row, That mark our place; and in the sky The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below.

We are the Dead. Short days ago We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie, In Flanders fields.

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C P1 year ago

Back in 2001, when I was still a thirteen year old who assumed Afghanistan was going to go more or less like a World War Two movie, my dad warned me to be careful of "people who wrap themselves in the flag."

Took me a few years to realize how right he was.

(Dad missed out on Vietnam because the draft ended just in time. Grandpa did three tours in Southeast Asia; his impeccable Army career was ended when he told a reporter on the record that Vietnam was a dumb war. Didn't get discharged or anything, but any chance at further promotion was gone. I'm pretty sure he knew that would happen and was just done with the Army at that point).

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mister mixAuthor1 year ago

That would definitely be a career-ender, even though it was the truth.

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Kay W.1 year ago

My father was an anti war veteran and I think that influenced my views a lot. He wouldn’t go to my school events to honor veterans although he worked 3rd shift and could have, easily. He hated the whole thing. I think he would have been proud of my youngest protesting against US funding of Gaza. They had a lot in common.

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r po1 year ago

Amen.

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TBone Dinosaur1 year ago

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Tam R1 year ago

My parents were anti Vietnam War organizers. People were so mad about it they tried to shoot us. My mom was pregnant at the time with my younger sister. Buckminster Fuller thought war was the byproduct of an outmoded belief system that was organized around the idea that there isn’t enough to go around. The only way to get more is to take from someone else. My dad thinks that humans probably had the most freedom when we were hunter gatherers. As soon as we learned how to farm and then store the harvest, we had to protect it from others. I don’t know why things are the way they are but I do know they don’t have to be this way.

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Kay W.1 year ago

My father was too old for Vietnam - he’s Korea- but he supported the protesters - he would tell us “they are RIGHT and that’s why people attack them”

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Busted Knee1 year ago

My father was saved by American's from a death camp in WW2. Outside of him and one more relative that entire side of the family was wiped out. After the rescue and a series of insane and harrowing events he and his cousin made it to America. He fought in the Korean War and my mother is his second wife. He never had any ounce of respect or tolerance for anti war protestors after that.

My mothers family also eventually left Europe but much later. They chose Canada as the Canadians had liberated her relatives. None of that side of the family was in death camps, saw combat, or had their kind slaughtered. They are anti war.

I can't help but see that difference. My dads friends all saw their share of war and pretty much were good with it. It had to be done. I served (Clinton and Bush) and enjoyed it but didn't agree with much that happened.

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mister mixAuthor1 year ago

The kids that went to Vietnam from my little town were mainly first generation residents of farming peasants who fled poverty and war in Europe. Generally conservative. I think they and their siblings were a lot less interested in having their kids serve in the military after Vietnam -- at least the ones I know.

The reservations sent a lot of their kids to the military and they are proud of their service.

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Scott H1 year ago

An old buddy of mine (lives down in CO Springs) is Native American and has been blunt about how the military gave him a way out and up.

His politics were always conservative...until Hair Furor. I haven't had the courage to ask him if he still votes wingnut down ticket but knowing he's not voted for an (R) in the last 3 presidential elections is a little something.

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Busted Knee1 year ago

Humans are territorial pack animals we cannot change that. Even the current left vs right argument is not about making things better for all. It's about who gets to rule the pack and have the best status and any sort of moral claim is nothing more than lies to justify their stance.

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John S.1 year ago

Unfortunately, the young men of the manosphere think otherwise.

Jordan Klepper from The Daily Show did a long piece last week on the MAGA youth. He was talking to a young man who came from a family of military service, and asked him what he thought if Trump decided to invade Greenland and called up people he cared about.

“I guess they’re going to Greenland.”

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TBone Dinosaur1 year ago

My comment to.that fucking guy:

You first!

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mister mixAuthor1 year ago

Yep, they can march right down to the recruiting office and sign up.

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Busted Knee1 year ago

To me this is offensive.

I did sign up. Despite my dad having been an officer I enlisted. Made NCO. Combat line jobs especially the elite lean highly white and highly conservative.

The military is not on the side of the left. Especially the elite killers. We get the in and out one tour that probably never makes E-4 mafia let alone an NCO. When after Obama ordered Bin Laden killed a bunch of the guys that did the killing came out as white and rabid right I wasn't shocked from working with that type in the past. It's odd as (though married to a woman) not entirely straight Jewish atheist but they are also my people. They had admirable backbone and remain great personal friends. I'm conflicted over it but so are they. Don't think they won't show up. They do.

I think back to my dad in WW2 and being rescued by Texans. They exactly like Jews, though they all liked killing Germans. As he died dad wondered what came of them. You have to chew through that to get the military.

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Busted Knee1 year ago

To me this is offensive.

I did sign up. Despite my dad having been an officer I enlisted. Made NCO. Combat line jobs especially the elite lean highly white and highly conservative.

The military is not on the side of the left. Especially the elite killers. We get the in and out one tour that probably never makes E-4 mafia let alone an NCO. When after Obama ordered Bin Laden killed a bunch of the guys that did the killing came out as white and rabid right I wasn't shocked from working with that type in the past. It's odd as (though married to a woman) not entirely straight Jewish atheist but they are also my people. They had admirable backbone and remain great personal friends. I'm conflicted over it but so are they. Don't think they won't show up. They do.

I think back to my dad in WW2 and being rescued by Texans. They exactly like Jews, though they all liked killing Germans. As he died dad wondered what came of them. You have to chew through that to get the military.

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TBone Dinosaur1 year ago

A solemn occasion and also Mom's birthday - she is at rest in a very tiny town church cemetery with my vet Dad and my other ancestors going back generations. Had one in every American war and police action up until Iraq.

For you, Mom, and for all of my Antifa relatives at rest:

https://inthesetimes.com/article/i-love-you-madame-librarian